All the paperwork, with its source
Witnesses, giving notice at least 29 days ahead, approved venues, time off. He cites gov.uk and tells you who to call when it matters.
Weddy · included in The Big Day
The best man who helps you plan it all
Day to day, Weddy answers your planning questions and walks you through the paperwork: the register office, the documents, the deadlines. He reads your page (your guests, your budget, your schedule) and stays with you at every step, until a month after the wedding. You write to him like a friend who has planned it all before.
♥♥♥3 free questions with no account, here or on the home page. 3 more with your free page.
Every day, every step
With you from day one to a month after the party
Every stage of a wedding has its questions. Weddy answers them with your page in front of him.
The start
The date, the venue, the budget
Which venue, which paperwork to gather, what budget for how many guests. He sets out the basics with you.
The paperwork
Giving notice, witnesses, documents
The documents to bring, the deadlines, the days off to book. He gives you the rule and its source, and tells you who to call.
The guests
Replies, reminders, seating
Who hasn’t replied, the dietary needs to pass on, a gentle reminder for your godfather. He reads your list.
The last month
The schedule, the suppliers, the nerves
What’s running late in your planning timeline, a note to the caterer, and someone to talk to at 11 pm.
After the party
Thank-yous, your name, the certificates
Thank-you notes, changing your name, getting copies of the certificate. He stays until a month after the wedding.
What he does
A friend who has planned it all before
Your numbers
How many bottles for your 14 adults, how far over budget you are, who hasn’t replied. He reads it on your page.
Messages, ready to go
A gentle nudge for the godfather, a note to the florist, a text for guests. He writes it, you send it.
The delicate stuff
A grandmother who objects, two traditions to blend, an ex in the family, stress that keeps you up. He answers with tact, judging no one.
What he answers
Three sample conversations
The notice
How early do we need to give notice?
In England and Wales, at least 29 days before the ceremony, at your local register office, in person, both of you. Bring ID and proof of address, and book the appointment early: slots go fast in spring.
The fizz
How many bottles for the drinks reception?
For your 14 adults: two or three glasses each at the reception, one with dessert. A bottle pours six or seven: 8 bottles, 10 if the three households who haven’t replied come 🥂
The family
My mother-in-law wants to invite fifteen cousins, we said 80 people.
Very common, and easier sorted together. Offer the cousins the drinks reception and keep dinner to the 80 you planned. If you like, I’ll draft the first lines for that chat.
Questions, in plain terms
How many, and for whom
A question you ask counts once. Off-topic or refused questions don’t count, and neither does an answer that fails.
3no accounthere or on the home page, to see how he answers
+3with your free pageand this time he reads your page
300with The Big Dayuntil a month after the wedding, 50 a day at most
+100if you run out£8, one payment, never a subscription
What he doesn’t do
And that’s on purpose
- He never books, pays or writes to anyone on your behalf.
- He never sells you anything in the conversation: his answers are answers.
- He doesn’t answer outside weddings, and flatly refuses hate and mockery.
- He never keeps a conversation about distress or abuse. He gives the right number, straight away.
- He doesn’t replace the registrar or a solicitor: when it’s binding, he tells you who to call.
Frequently asked questions
What people ask us about Weddy
Who is Weddy?
Your planning best man, included in The Big Day. Day to day, he reads your page (guests, budget, planning timeline) and answers your questions: the register office, paperwork, deadlines, family, bottles. He stays with you at every step, until a month after the wedding. He never books anything and never writes to your guests. He’s an artificial intelligence: for a tricky case, he tells you who to call.
Are 300 questions enough?
Do the maths: that’s almost one question a day for ten months. Off-topic or refused questions don’t count, and if an answer fails, you get the question back. If you still run out, 100 more questions cost £8 (or $10), one payment. Never a subscription.
Does he answer everything?
Anything to do with your wedding, tricky topics included: a family that doesn’t get on, two religions, stress. For the rest (homework, politics, football) he tells you kindly, and the question costs you nothing. A joke aimed at someone for who they are, he flatly refuses.
What about our conversations?
Weddy reads your page to answer you, nothing more. Your conversations go through Anthropic, the company that runs his intelligence, and are not used to train it. Delete them in one click, in Weddy, Conversations.
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