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Online RSVP

Online wedding RSVP, household by household

Your guests RSVP from your wedding website: one reply per household, with children, meal choices and dietary needs. You see who’s coming and who hasn’t replied, and chase them with one message. Free, with unlimited guests.

Per householdone reply for the whole family, not a form per person
No accountguests open a link: nothing to install, no password
Freereplies are in the free plan, with no limit on guests
12 monthsthen everything is deleted

For your guests

One reply per household, in two minutes

  • How many adults and children, with their ages
  • Everyone’s meal choice, if you offer a menu
  • Vegetarian, no pork, gluten-free: three boxes to tick
Try the form on an example page

For the two of you

Who’s coming, who isn’t, and the reminder ready to go

  • The counts: invited, yes, no, no reply yet
  • A reminder written for you, with the RSVP date and the link
  • Sent by WhatsApp or text, household by household

The useful questions

Everything your caterer will ask you

  • The menu

    Offer two to four dishes: every adult picks theirs, and the caterer gets the exact count.

  • Dietary needs

    Three boxes, not a free-text field. The “details” field only appears if you switch it on: an allergy is health data.

  • Children

    How many, and how old, so the caterer plans the right meals and the right chairs.

  • Transport and accommodation

    Who’s taking the coach, who’s still looking for somewhere to stay: you know how many seats to book, and whom to help.

  • The whole weekend

    Drinks the night before, the brunch the morning after: a yes or a no for each. A private event only shows through the personal link of the households invited.

  • The caterer’s summary

    Meals, children’s menus and dietary needs, in total and table by table: copy it, or download a spreadsheet with The Invitation.

How it works

Online RSVP in three steps

  1. 01

    Add your guests

    Paste your list from Excel, Google Sheets or your notes: one line per household. No list yet? The replies will build it.

  2. 02

    Send the link

    By WhatsApp, by text, or on the invitation with its QR code. Pick an RSVP date: it shows on the page.

  3. 03

    Track and chase

    Every reply lands in your list within seconds. For the stragglers, a message ready to send, household by household.

Card, form or website

RSVP card, Google Forms or Weddtap?

RSVP card, Google Forms or Weddtap?
What mattersWeddtapRSVP cardGoogle Forms
CostFree, unlimited guestsPrinting and return postageFree
One reply for the whole householdYes, it’s made for itYesBuild it yourself
Knowing who hasn’t repliedIn your list, household by householdTicking off the list by handComparing the spreadsheet with your list
ChasingA ready message, by WhatsApp or textBy phoneA message to write to each
Changing their mindYes, from the same phoneA phone callIf you allowed it
Times, address, order of the dayOn the same pageOn the invitationSomewhere else

Google Forms is a fine form tool: it just doesn’t know your guest list, or your wedding.

Pricing

Online RSVP is free

Your guests’ replies are in the free plan, with no limit on guests, and they stay there. The caterer’s spreadsheet comes with The Invitation (£35, once); the table plan, filled from those replies, with The Big Day (£59, once).

Further reading

Worth reading before you send the link

The other features

Frequently asked questions

Questions about online RSVP

What does RSVP mean on a wedding invitation?
RSVP stands for “Répondez s’il vous plaît”, French for “please reply”: it’s the answer you ask your guests for, by a set date. Online, they give it on your wedding website instead of posting a card back.
Do my guests need an account?
No. They open the link, tap “RSVP” and choose yes or no. No password, no app, no email address required.
One reply per person or per household?
Per household. A family replies once for everyone: how many adults and children, their first names if you like, everyone’s meal. It’s also how invitations are sent.
How do I chase guests who haven’t replied?
Weddtap lists the households with no reply and writes the message for you, with the RSVP date and the link. Tap WhatsApp or text for each household, and it’s ticked off as chased.
Can a guest change their reply?
Yes. From the same phone, they find their reply and edit it: the same reply changes, rather than a second one being added. With their personal link, it files itself straight on their card.
Is online RSVP really free?
Yes, with unlimited guests. The free plan limits the order of the day (three moments) and venues (one), never the replies. The Invitation (£35) and The Big Day (£59) are paid once, with no subscription.
Where does my guests’ data go?
It’s deleted automatically twelve months after the wedding, with no advertising and nothing sold on. The free-text field for allergies stays closed until you open it.

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Your first replies could arrive tonight

Create the page, send the link: replies file themselves, household by household.

Free, unlimited guests, no card needed.