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Garden wedding at home: budget, marquee, toilets and weather

Getting married at home or a friend's property is economical and intimate. But there are details not to miss: marquee, electricity, toilets, weather.

Key takeaways

€3,500the typical venue hire at a classic level in our simulator: what a garden saves, before you pay for the tent, toilets and power.

  • A backyard wedding saves the venue hire, but not everything a venue provides: tent, toilets, power, furniture and cleanup become your costs.
  • Typical hidden costs: tent rental (€800-1,500 for 40 people), portable toilets (€200-500), electricity or a generator (€200-400), cleanup after (€300-700).
  • Weather: always plan for a tent, even when the forecast is clear.
  • Limits: around 50-70 guests at most in a typical garden, with enough toilets and somewhere for cars to go.
In this guide
  1. Step 1: Evaluate your garden
  2. Budgets to plan
  3. Power, water and light: the details venues hide
  4. Neighbours, noise and insurance
  5. The day before and the day after
  6. Timeline for garden wedding
  7. Frequently asked questions

A wedding in the garden is the most personal venue there is: your trees, your table, your family home. It is also the venue where nothing is provided. A wedding venue comes with toilets, power, a kitchen, parking and someone who locks up at the end; at home, every one of those becomes a line on your to-do list.

Step 1: Evaluate your garden

  • Size: how many m²? 40 guests = 100-120 m² (for tent + tables + bar).
  • Ground: is it flat? A slope makes tables wobble and tents harder to anchor. Check for buried pipes and cables before stakes go in.
  • Bathrooms: how many at home? For 40 guests, 2-3 minimal, otherwise portable bathrooms.
  • Electricity: outlet near tent? Generator needed?
  • Parking: where will 40 cars go? Street? Neighbor's property?
  • Access: can a delivery van, the tent company and the caterer reach the garden, and where do they unload?

Budgets to plan

ItemBudgetNotes
Tent 40 people€800-1,500Rental, includes tables + chairs
Portable bathrooms€200-500If not 2-3 at home
Electricity / Generator€200-400If needed
Catering€2,000-4,000Brought to site
Photographer€1,500-2,500Same rate as venue
Cleanup after€300-700Or do it yourself
Misc (lighting, decor)€500-1,000String lights, candles

These ranges are indicative and vary with the region, the season and what each rental company includes. Ask every supplier for a delivered, installed and collected price: transport and setup are often billed on top.

Power, water and light: the details venues hide

A household socket was never designed to run a caterer's ovens, a sound system and fifty metres of string lights at the same time. Ask each supplier how much power they need, add it up, and show the total to an electrician or the tent company. If the house can't supply it, rent a generator and place it far from the tables: it is noisy.

  • Water: the caterer needs a tap nearby for cooking and washing up.
  • Light: paths, toilets, steps and the car park must be lit, not just the dance floor.
  • Rubbish: plan bins, sorting and who takes everything away the next day.
  • Insects: in summer, citronella candles and a clear spot for the dessert table away from the hedge.

Neighbours, noise and insurance

Your neighbours will hear the wedding whether they are invited or not. A note in their letterbox a few weeks ahead, with the date and the end time of the music, avoids most complaints; inviting them for a drink avoids the rest. Check local noise rules, and ask your insurer whether your home policy covers guests, rented equipment and any damage.

The day before and the day after

A garden wedding lasts three days, not one. The tent usually goes up one or two days before, the caterer and the hire company deliver the day before, and everything has to be dismantled and collected afterwards. Ask friends for help on the eve and the morning after rather than on the day itself, and agree the collection times in writing: a rental company that only comes back on Tuesday means a tent on your lawn for half a week.

Timeline for garden wedding

  1. 6 months beforeBook tent rental company, check their slot is free.
  2. 4 months beforeConfirm caterer (check they deliver to garden)
  3. 2 months beforeConfirm parking solution, check neighbor OK if you're using their property
  4. 1 month beforeFinal weather check, plan tent setup day
  5. The week beforeMow the lawn, prune what hangs low, test the lights and the power, and walk the route a guest will take from car to toilets in the dark.

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Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions

What if the weather is bad?
That is what the tent is for: around €800-1,500 for a 40-person tent, ideally with side walls you can lower if it rains or the evening turns cold. Book it whatever the forecast, and plan where guests will walk if the lawn turns to mud.
How do we handle bathrooms?
Either the house has two or three toilets that guests can use (realistic up to about 40 guests), or you rent portable ones (€200-500 for 40 guests). Add a lit path to reach them, soap, paper and someone who checks them during the evening.
Do we need permission to hold a wedding in our garden?
A private party on private land usually needs no special permit, but noise rules still apply, and in some places amplified music late at night is restricted. Tell the neighbours in advance, check your local rules, and ask your insurer whether your home policy covers an event with guests.
How many guests can a garden take?
Count roughly 2.5 to 3 m² per guest for a seated dinner under a tent, plus space for the bar, the dance floor and the caterer. In practice, most gardens are comfortable up to 50-70 guests; beyond that, toilets and parking become the real limit.
Can the caterer work without a proper kitchen?
Many can, but ask before you sign. They will need a flat, covered area near the tent, power, water and somewhere to keep things cold. Some bring a mobile kitchen or a refrigerated trailer, which is billed separately.

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