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Free wedding day timeline template (order of the day)

A wedding day needs a timeline so your photographer knows when the kiss happens, your DJ knows when to play slow dances, and you're not stressed by 5pm.

Key takeaways

14 hourstotal time from morning prep to last dance.

  • Morning: 2-3 hours for hair/makeup.
  • Ceremony: 30-45 minutes.
  • Apéritif + photos: 1.5-2 hours.
  • Dinner + toasts: 3-4 hours.
  • Dancing: 2-3 hours.
In this guide
  1. Sample 14-hour wedding timeline
  2. The classic evening version
  3. Build in buffers
  4. Two versions: one for suppliers, one for guests
  5. What always runs late
  6. Timeline by season/daypart
  7. Frequently asked questions

A wedding timeline isn't there to run the day like a train timetable. It is there so that a dozen people (photographer, caterer, DJ, witnesses, the person driving your grandmother) make the right decision at the right moment without coming to ask you.

Sample 14-hour wedding timeline

This first version follows a daytime wedding, with a ceremony around 1pm and a long lunch that turns into a party. It suits a summer wedding where the couple want to finish at a reasonable hour.

TimeActivityNotes
8:00amWake up, breakfastCalm, not rushed
8:30am-10:30amHair & makeup2 hours for bride, parallel groom + family
10:30am-11:00amGet dressed, photos at home30 mins, photographer there
11:00am-11:45amFirst look15 mins private, 15 mins couple photos
11:45am-12:45pmGuest arrival, apéritifGuests arrive, drinks, small bites
12:45pm-1:15pmCeremony30 mins
1:15pm-3:15pmCocktail hour + family photosPhotos while guests eat light snacks
3:15pm-5:00pmLunch/Dinner part 1Starter + main course
5:00pm-5:30pmCake cutting + toasts30 mins, speeches alternate
5:30pm-6:30pmDinner part 2Dessert, coffee
6:30pm-7:00pmBreak/photo interludeBand sets up, guests relax
7:00pm-7:15pmFirst danceJust married couple, then parents
7:15pm-11:00pmOpen dance floorDJ takes over, open dancing
11:00pmLast call / goodbyeGuests leave gradually

The classic evening version

Many weddings in France follow another rhythm: a civil ceremony at the town hall in the afternoon, a long drinks reception, then dinner and dancing late into the night.

TimeActivityNotes
2:00pmCivil ceremony at the town hall20-30 mins; guests arrive 15 mins early
3:00pmReligious or symbolic ceremony45 mins to 1 hour
4:30pmDrinks reception and group photos1.5 to 2 hours
6:30pmCouple portraits30 mins, while guests move to dinner
7:30pmGuests seated, couple's entranceAllow 20 mins to seat everyone
8:00pmDinner, speeches between courses2.5 to 3 hours
10:30pmCake, then first danceThe DJ starts straight after
11:00pmOpen dance floorUntil the venue's end time
2:00amLate snack, last songShuttles and taxis booked in advance

Build in buffers

  • Hair and makeup: add 30 minutes, and put the person getting married last in the chair, not first.
  • Group photos: list the groups in advance and name a relative who gathers them. Ten groups take at least 20 minutes.
  • Transfers: time the drive between venues at the same hour of the same weekday, then add parking and walking.
  • Speeches: three to five minutes each. Ask for the running order in advance and share it with the caterer, so the food doesn't wait.

Two versions: one for suppliers, one for guests

The vendors' timeline starts with the flower delivery in the morning and ends with the noise limit at night, with phone numbers and setup times. Your guests need six lines: where and when the ceremony starts, how to get to the reception, when dinner begins, when the last shuttle leaves. Give each audience its own version, and keep both up to date in one place.

What always runs late

Some delays are so predictable that they belong in the timeline from the start. Plan for them and they stop being delays.

  • The last person in the hair and makeup chair, usually a mother or a witness who said she only needed ten minutes.
  • Guests leaving the ceremony: hugs and congratulations take a good fifteen minutes before anyone moves.
  • Seating for dinner: a hundred people take twenty minutes to find their table, longer without a clear table plan.
  • The main course, when the speeches before it overrun: tell the caterer who speaks when.

On the day, name one person, a witness or the planner, who holds the timeline and makes the small decisions: shorten the photos, move a speech, start dessert. Whatever happens, it shouldn't be you.

Timeline by season/daypart

  1. Daytime (11am ceremony)Morning prep, light lunch, afternoon activities, early evening send-off.
  2. Evening (6pm ceremony)Afternoon prep, ceremony at 6pm, dinner 7-10pm, dancing 10pm-midnight.
  3. Summer (very long light)Extra time for outdoor photos. Dinner later (8pm) because it's still light at 7pm.
  4. Winter (dark by 5pm)Morning ceremony (light), dinner earlier (5:30pm), dancing under string lights.

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Frequently asked questions

Frequently asked questions

When should the first photo happen?
First look (you and partner) 30 mins before ceremony. It calms nerves and gives photographer golden light.
Do you need an exact timeline for dancing?
No. But DJ should know: cake cutting at 8:15pm, first dance at 8:30pm, then open dance floor.
How much buffer should we build in?
About 15 minutes before each fixed point: the ceremony, the start of dinner, the first dance. Hair and makeup, group photos and the transfer between venues always take longer than planned.
Who should get the timeline?
Everyone with a role. Vendors get the detailed version, with setup times and contacts; guests get a short one with five or six times; your witnesses get both.
How early should the timeline be ready?
Draft it two months before, once the main vendors are booked, and send the final version to everyone about ten days before the wedding. That leaves time for the photographer, the caterer and the DJ to point out what doesn't work.

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