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How do I ask about dietary needs, allergies, children and the menu?

In My guide › Cover › Reply form, one switch per question: children (with their age), dietary needs as tick boxes, a menu to pick from, shuttle, accommodation. Only turn on what you need.

My guideCoverReply formWhat your guests will fill in

The settings

  • Ask whether children are coming: with their age, so the caterer sets out the right chairs.
  • Offer dietary requirements as tick boxes: vegetarian, no pork, gluten-free.
  • The menu: offer 2 to 4 dishes (five at most); each adult picks theirs. With no dish, the question doesn’t show.
  • The weekend, shuttle and accommodation: a yes or no per moment, for the shuttle, and “still looking for somewhere to stay”.

Every question fewer is a quicker reply. Replies arrive household by household in List and replies, and in the caterer summary.

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Updated October 13, 2026