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How do I ask my guests to reply (RSVP) and set a deadline?

In My guide › Cover › Reply form, choose Yes to “Do you want your guests to reply from the page?”: a reply button appears, with no account needed for your guests. The deadline doesn’t stop anyone replying.

My guideCoverReply form

  1. Open My guide › Cover › Reply form and choose Yes.
  2. Set Replies wanted by: count six weeks before the wedding, that’s what a caterer asks for.
  3. Choose what you ask (children, dietary needs, menu…): see How do I ask about dietary needs, allergies, children and the menu?.

Your guests tap Reply to the invitation, say whether they’re coming and how many: one reply per household, and the counters climb on their own in List and replies. Don’t need replies (phone, reply card)? Choose No: the page becomes a simple booklet, and you can switch them on later.

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Updated October 13, 2026